Girls, let’s face it, guys tend to be too cocky about their “skills” when it comes to sexual intercourse. From personal experience, it doesn’t matter how attractive you are on the outside, it has no reflection on your abilities to perform in the bedroom. I guess I’ve drawn the conclusion that you really can’t judge a book by its cover, or a penis by its owner.

Whether you’ve suffered from a horrible lover, a night you never wanted to end, or a “what the hell was I thinking?” moment, ladies I think we have met our match: the almighty vibrator!

Fortunately, as women we’re lucky enough not to get blue balls, but we still get just as sexually frustrated as men do when the hype of sex is built up and we don’t get our boats rocked the right way. Why not take that leap of bravery, feed your curiosity and help your vahjayjay out? You wont be sorry, I can promise you that.

Vibrators should be a girl’s best friend. Whether or not you’ve got a man who is horizontally blessed, when it comes to getting down and the lover isn’t around, girl hook a vag up and get yourself some! If you’re single and you’re collecting dust down there and need to have a little fun, your sweet spot will love you and that special toy will work it out better than any Tom, Dick, or Harry.

Got a man a million miles away? Why not cure your sexual deprivation and his? Give him a peep show: Toy + lube + webcam = Best girlfriend ever.

Ditch the webcam and use the toy and lube combo to spice it up in the bedroom if long distance isn’t an issue. You’ll still be the best girlfriend ever, because guys love girls that are down to experiment!

When it comes to choosing what toy works best for you, there are many factors to keep in mind. It’s like buying a pair of shoes; you want something that suits you, fits you right, and it help if it’s pretty to look at too. Here’s a few helpful hints and ideas to keep in mind when shopping for the perfect toy:

What kind of stimulation do you desire?
Is it waterproof?
How does it work and is it complicated?
Does it vibrate and rotate?
How many settings and/or vibrate and rotate combos does it have?
Is it the right size for you?
Do you want texture and something life like?
Is it wireless?

Researching toys online is always a good idea. You can get detailed descriptions, read reviews and get the lowdown on more specifications that will help you in finding the perfect toy for you.

Men, if you want to get in on the action, sex toys make for perfect gifts, assuming that your girlfriend is more than willing to try something new! (Definitely one of my favorite gifts to receive.)

My girlfriends and I swear by these sexy little gadgets and what nots:

Clitterfic Cup

This is one of my personal favorites! Not only is it my favorite color, but it works wonders. Its waterproof jelly material is perfect for the shower, but it also has 3 settings for clitoris stimulation as well as the moving head sensation. Alone time has never felt so good!

Purple Seven-Function Remote Control Egg

This little baby is a force to be reckoned with! It last for up to 8 hours and has 7 functions. Not only is it wireless but it reaches up to 20 feet away. Ah, the beauty of technology!

Blue Dolphin Finger Vibe

One of my friends bought this for his girlfriend and she was dying to spill about how much she loved it. According to her, “the blue dolphin reaches the perfect spots in the perfect positions and feels great for me and him both!” She HIGHLY suggests doggy style when fooling around with this little gadget. Your clitoris and his um, “sack” will thank you later! I’ll take her word for it!

Hot Licks Edible Warming Lotion

There are a million lubes out there, but this one is definitely an edible winner! It comes in an array of flavors. Rubbing equals warmth, blowing equals heat. This will turn up the temperature in the matter of a few seconds!

Pink Silicone Lube

This little tube of lube is hands down silky smooth perfection. It’s one of the newest lubes to come out, so take it for a test run and enjoy the ride.

Screaming O Cockring

3 words: We love it.

Trojan Pleasure Pack

If you’re going to use condoms, might as well use the good kind and spruce it up a bit! Trojans are great, and with the Pleasure Pack you have your choice of Twisted Pleasure, Her Pleasure,  Shared Pleasure  and Intense Ribbed.

Happy sexing ladies!