In the English language, it has become common practice to cut off the first word or two of sentences:
“See you later.”
“Can’t wait.”
“Know what I mean?”
Call it linguistic evolution or just sheer laziness, but we’re all guilty. Is it cause for alarm? Probably not. There’s one instance, however, when this trend really, truly gets under my skin:
“Love you.”
Some people say it in lieu of goodbye, like some shallow Hollywood air kiss au revoir. Others substitute it for the traditional, heartfelt “I love you.” So what’s the big deal? I’ll tell you.
Anytime the word “I” is excluded, responsibility is not being taken for the feelings behind the sentiment. Much ado has been made over those three loaded words throughout the course of history, and it’s understandable to buck the system in favor of something less weightier. Nonetheless, if you refuse to possess your profession of love, it holds little meaning.
Other options:
“You’re great!”
“I adore you.”
“I like you a whole lot.”
“You slay me.”
“If I had balls/ovaries/identity, I would tell you I love you…but alas, I’m too chicken-shit. Can we still be friends?”
Love is one of the most important feelings you can express. It’s abstract and intuitive and powerful. If you can’t stake your claim with all three words, don’t half-ass it by chopping off the most valuable part. Choose another way to convey your fondness, or please – I BESEECH you – don’t say anything at all.
Author: Britt Warner
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love this post
Ha! Smarty.
Haha, I too, am guilty of it. When I say it, I mean it. The *I* part is implied.
"love ya" seems to be a common phrase among girls who secretly hate or dislike one another….in my experience. good points!