Comments on: Standards: What are yours?

By: Aislinn

Aislinn — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 13:26:57 +0000

I completely agree on all of these facts. In a recent foray into a pseudo relationship the sex was rather lacking, though many of my friends encouraged me to hold out and hope it gets better, to teach him, I knew that it wasn’t just his lack of technical prowess, it was a matter of us being mismatched. I found myself fantasizing about other men, women, my vibrator, random people on the street and knew it was time to jump ship. I love sex, it’s not a point I’m willing to debate. I’m also an avid 20+ tipper and could never stomach dating a bad tipper, it seems like a small thing, but it says so much about a person. And a messy apartment makes me cringe. My very first boyfriend spoiled me, I walked into his tidy, organized and starkly but none the less decorated apartment and felt adult and comfortable, since then, I simply won’t accept a 30 year old man who lives like a messy frat boy.

By: Adora

Adora — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 03:51:57 +0000

I could write a list of standards but at the end of the day a man needs to be able to make me feel. To feel happy, loved, desirable and like there is no-one else in this entrie world that he would rather be with than me.

By: livvvvvvvv

livvvvvvvv — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:39:07 +0000

hmm had not thought of that. it didn’t seem likely though, we were meeting at a casual bar. either way, the vibe was definitely not good. and i would have worn something sexy regardless!

By: Jamie

Jamie — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:30:47 +0000

maybe the bartender had something cool planned like dirty dancing lessons that had a sexy dress code?

By: Shar

Shar — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:27:36 +0000

right on target, definitely not too much to ask!

By: Standards – we’ve all got ‘em. What are yours? « Dessert or Disaster

Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:14:21 +0000

[...] Generosity. I’m not a materialistic person, despite what you may think due to my constant blogging about fashion and make-up. I don’t need a boyfriend who buys me expensive gifts and who spoils me. I like being treated to dinner and drinks, but with that, you must let me treat you too! However, the only monetary concern I have in a relationship is poor tipping. My biggest pet peeve – with friends, family, and potential mates – is not leaving gratitude for the service. If we’re on a date and you pick up the tab, I will try and look at the credit card receipt to see if you’ve left twenty percent or more. If not? Seeeee ya later! Keep reading here, and add your own! [...]