The Ghost of Dating Past

Published on April th, 2010 - Author: Niki Payne

AskMen.com shares with its readers the Top 10: Skeletons In Her Closet with at least half of the biggest offenders relating to some act of sex. How astonishing that should a woman decide to exercise her sexual liberty, it is seen as something to be ashamed of and to be hidden. So your new girlfriend has a healthy sexual appetite. Bid deal. Are you worried you can’t keep up?

Fuck me badly once, shame on you. Fuck me badly twice, shame on me. – Kim Cattrall

We all have skeletons in our closet, some worse than others. Regardless, the important thing to highlight here is that the skeletons we may hide in our closets are not what define us. What defines us is where we are today, and where we want to be tomorrow, not who we once were, or what we once did.

I will wear whatever and blow whomever I was as long as I can breathe and kneel. – Kim Cattrall

We live. We laugh. We learn. We move on. But some people have a hard time with moving on, and that should be the number one skeleton in anyone’s closet, not the fact that you slept with every man or woman in town.

Here’s some food for thought. Why don’t we stop hiding our skeletons and embrace them for change, for being the invisible force that drives us to change for the better? After all, are we not a product of our experiences?

Who cares what you are just enjoy it. – Kim Cattrall

Don’t let the ghost of dating past haunt you forever. Instead, let it enlighten you and embrace the insight and knowledge it provides you as you learn more about yourself and your intrinsic motivations.

Author: Niki Payne

Comments

  1. Posted by Manuel Carrillo III on April 14th, 2010, 12:46

    YESS! Everyone should read this exact post once a month. As long as we’re still alive and healthy today, what we have done in our past cannot be that bad.

  2. Posted by Lucy Tonic on April 19th, 2010, 01:22

    “if you have a skeleton in your closet, take it out and dance with it.”

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