I’ve often been told that I’m an easy person to talk to. So easy it seems that people have no filter when they’re around me. Some days I think they tell me things for shock value alone.

Most of these shockers come from men. The things that come out of their mouths on any given day is unbelievable. So true to form, I take what they tell me and put it in writing.

And thus, “The Confessional: Tales of a Man Whore” was born.

Here’s the latest entry on why both chafing and bad sex hurt everyone in the end:

Last week I found myself explaining to MW what chafing was, as he was digging around in his pants, I wondered if he had some irritation going on. He admitted, that yes, his drawers were causing some unnecessary rubbing action.

Since explaining how painful chafing could be to him, I thought MW would avoid chafing at all costs.

I was wrong.

After a week of ‘horrible sex’, he is desperately ready to take matters into his own hands, with or without lotion. I advised this would literally be rough and advised against it, to which he responded, “I’ll use my spit or tears of unhappiness.”

MW is a lot of things, being resourceful tops the list.

He asked, ‘But, what do I do from here? How do I tell her she’s not good in bed?’

The easy answer: you don’t. You just discontinue sex with her. If that seems too abrupt an action, guidance is always an option. However, if you think the sex is horrible, but she thinks the sex is great, there is something amiss, no? If MW can’t find the groove, then he is looking at many more chafe-filled nights.

You can get bad sex from several places. One night stands. Drunken mistakes. Anyone eager to please, which come summertime those aren’t too hard to find.

So my question to MW is, if the communication is suffering plus the sex is less than remarkable, in what world does that make for a healthy and happy relationship? Seems a bit too hard if you ask me.

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